By now you’ve all heard about the Colorado mall store “Kids and Teens” that was selling crotchless thong panties for 7-year-olds (in addition to everything else, how does a crotchless thong panty WORK, exactly, I mean engineering-wise? I don’t get it). It’s unfathomable that someone came up with that product. It’s unfathomable that some buyer in Colorado thought it was, what, cute? A good idea to put in a store? And the store’s abhorrent defense was that it somehow got in there because they also sell items to teens. As if it would be somehow understandable if they were marketing crotchless thong panties (heretofore known as CTP) to your 13-year-old. Or your 15-year-old. Or your 16-year-old. And why should “kids” be shopping in the same store as “teens” to begin with? Is that appropriate?
Obviously, this particular incidence of age compression was so far over the line that parents flipped out, the media got on board, and the product was pulled. So the story ended similarly to the Abercrombie push-up bikini episode or the J.C. Penney’s “I’m to pretty to do homework so my brother has to do it for me” t-shirt debacle or the KIA kiddie-porn ad.
But you can bet there will be more of these scandals. They pop up nearly weekly, whether it’s lingerie for 10-year-olds, the hyper-sexualized rendering of Dakota Fanning in a perfume ad, Botox for baby beauty queens or Walmart’s makeup line for 8-12 year olds (don’t worry, Mom, it’s non-toxic!). When they do pop up, much hand-wringing and righteousindignation ensues and I’m all for that. But I’d urge you to remember these do not and can not happen in a vacuum. There is a continuum of products and images marketed to girls and their parents that made these obviously over-the-line items POSSIBLE. The risk of focusing on the Big Bad is that we become desensitized to the every day.
Consider, for example, this outfit from the current GAP “North Star” girls’ collection.
Under the amusing headline, “Gap Kids Recommends Little Girls Eschew Pants This Winter” a Jezebel blogger writes:
I’m not sure what’s more WTF about it — the weird insistence on “sexiness” or its stunning lack of practicality. What’s a kid supposed to do with an outfit like this? Not go sledding, snow angeling, or ice skating, that’s for damn sure. The implied sweater-wearing also means that more high energy indoor activities, like discoing or, uh, present opening would render the wearer sweaty. This is just a recipe for un-fun times.
I suppose this is what happens when five-year-olds are allowed to dress themselves using only Bratz clothing.
Does this fall into the CTP category? No. But it does fall into the nearly 25% of clothing for girls aged 6-12 that contains elements that are both childlike and sexualized. As I’ve written before, citing a study released last summer, only 4% of girls’ clothing is fully, overtly sexualized (the CTP being a case in point). I don’t know who, beyond Mickie Wood, is buying that stuff. And nearly 2/3 of girls’ clothing is considered entirely childlike. It’s this 25% (more in stores like Abercrombie Kids and Justice) that mixes the message that I consider most toxic. Those are the things, to my mind, we REALLY need to examine and protest–and the mash-up is what makes that so hard to do.
Must go. Dog is chewing my desk. Happy Thanksgiving everyone!